Day 235 - A Year to Clear - Ways to Cultivate Stillness - One Minute at a Time

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Lesson 235: Ways to Cultivate Stillness - One Minute at a Time

Below is a list that Stephanie Bennett Vogt has cultivated to take moments of time to practise stillness through her own experience. Today we are to think about the ways in which we practise stillness and if they are different to those suggestions below.

- Rest in beauty: Look up from your screen and place your attention on something beautiful and allow your mind to rest in that.

- Take your time: Deliberately slow down for one minute when your impulse is to speed up (and allow yourself to squirm).

- Insert awareness: Release tension by observing it. See if tightness eases by being a witnessing presence.

- Be curious: Pretend you know nothing; invite wonder; accept mystery as a legitimate state of being.

- Wait and watch: Allow an answer to reveal itself through one of your senses. Don’t force or overthink it.

- Do nothing: Allow things to be just as they are without doing anything to fix or change anything.

- Don’t personalize (since it’s rarely about you): Pretend that everything that does not feel good is not yours. Repeat “It’s not mine.”

- Breathe and release: Breathe deeply from your chest down to your belly through the soles of your feet and into the Earth.

- Wash and release: Use the simple practice of washing your hands (body, dishes) for one minute to quiet your mind and release stress.

- Sit in silence: Sit quietly for one minute with no agenda.
— Stephanie Bennett Vogt

My favourite ways to practise stillness include:

·         Closing my eyes for a moment and taking deep breaths in through the nose and breathing our from the mouth.

·         I practise in the shower a visual exercise of closing my eyes and imagining the water is golden light washing over me and washing away any worries and negativity down the drain.

·         I like to be in nature just as it is. Don’t have to do much but just sit there and appreciate.

·         I like putting on some music and allow my thoughts to wander off, so I can just be in the music.

·         Sometimes I like doing nothing… like literally nothing.

·         I like switching off with a TV series that won’t take any brain power to watch it.

·         I sometimes just put on music and dance around because it’s a release.

·         Sometimes I may just go for a walk with no destination.

 

What are some ways you can get into stillness? There are so many ways to calm everything down to a state of peace. We just need to be aware that it’s needed and we just have to take the step to want to be in it.

Day 235 - A Year of Spiritual Awakening - The Heart of Connection...

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Lesson 235: The Heart of Connection...

The heart of connection, of knowing oneself as one of One, opens easily in sex. This is because sex is Divine union of physical, Divine union of energetic. This is the purpose of sex: Oneness.
— Sara Wiseman

Today we are to think Oneness in sex and if it’s something you feel during this union. If you don’t, why not? Is there something holding you back?

I personally have never thought about Oneness with sex. I also feel that I haven’t met someone to have that type of true connection with. I think it could be an amazing experience by allowing Oneness to just be. I think this is something I am aware of now. I find that in a past relationship, there was definitely passion and love to a certain point, though I don’t believe I experienced Oneness in energetic Divine union. I think this might actually be achieved by people you deem as soul mates or you have solid connection with. I have found in my experience that a lot of straight men are quite transactional where I live – I am not judging by the way. I find that they just want to have sex and move onto the next, which does not allow for true connection.

The environment in which I live makes it challenging for someone like me wanting to establish a connection because everything is so casual. I’m definitely not losing hope! It will happen when it’s supposed to. And, when it happens, I might actually get a chance to experience this Oneness.