Day 194 - A Year of Spiritual Awakening - When You Argue With Someone...

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Lesson 194: When You Argue With Someone...

Let’s not argue with someone today. That’s the lesson… but also not quite. When we argue with someone, we tend to have a certain element of energy – whether that be frustration, anger, excitement… that conducts within that argument. Today, we are to “look outside the facts” and try instead by looking at the vibration/frequency. We are to move to into our compassion to raise our vibration so that the person we are arguing with, matches your vibration. We are there to lift it. We can make this change in others.
I personally do not go out of my way to argue with others. I tend to only place a point across when I need to. I just don’t see the point in arguing. I accept healthy discussions with good action points that leads to a good outcome.

If there are arguments, I sit there and listen. If I feel a rise in me, then I will say something to stand up for myself but it’s never in an argumentative way. I’ve found that the situations I’ve been in, actually involve people not telling full truths or trying to cut me down, so of course, I will stand up for me or others that need my voice. I can’t actually think of lately where I have argued with someone. There are some things we do at work in which I don’t understand why we are doing them, but I can’t say I argue with my manager, but I rather try to gain a better understanding of why I am doing the work. Most of the time, I kind of fall flat in that regard because the reason why I do my work is convoluted and though it doesn’t make sense to me (and often times I think it’s a waste of time), it makes sense to someone else who is higher up than me.

Anyway, this lesson is kind of lost on me because I don’t argue with people. Maybe, I’m practising this good vibration method more than I realise. I am always seeking to create an environment that is good and welcoming. I am always out to treat people how I want to be treated. I just want people to be their best selves when they are around me, so to be in arguments is not something you’ll see me doing actively.

Try actively changing the vibration of arguments by applying compassion and see if it makes a difference in your life.