Day 287 - A Year of Spiritual Awakening - The Pain of Losing Someone...

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Lesson 287: The Pain of Losing Someone...

“The pain of losing someone we love can seem beyond endurance. We think, in this moment, that death has taken them away forever. And yet, in the soul’s time, this is not true.”

— Sara Wiseman

Today’s lesson is to think about a loved one that has crossed over and if you could communicate with them, would you find this healing? You can ask for it to happen today, if you’re ready to, of course.

Because I am a medium, I see passed away loved ones, guides, angels, gods and goddesses all the time. Sometimes I channel them, sometimes they just come when I’m not bringing them in and other times I do readings for other people and see their guides and loved ones.

I do find it is healing because you get to understand them better, especially if you didn’t understand when they were here. My grandma is the only family member who I have lost. My grandpas left before I was born and I’ve seen my grandpa on my father’s side. I think he’s been protecting me from a young age.

I connected with my grandma in spirit and it was emotional. I felt bad for how I was with her when she was alive and I hoped that she was okay on the other side. I just remembering her saying to me “look around. Look where I am. It’s perfect”. When I meet family and ancestors across the veil, there is a certain setting we have that we meet in. The whole scene is in murky green colour and although that’s not the nicest colour, the place we meet is beautiful. It was nice to meet my grandma and know everything is okay for her. She’s happy, I feel good and there is nothing more I need to do to heal my situation.

I think everyone can communicate with loved ones crossed over if they want to. It’s just about being open to it and learning some technique to connect. Give it a try or learn some methods to connect to the other side. Anyone can do it.

Day 287 - A Year to Clear - Check In WEEK 41 - Taking a Breather

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Lesson 287: Check In WEEK 41 - Taking a Breather

This week was about taking a pause and not giving rise to challenges that presented themselves. I personally really liked the do nothing for 2 minutes exercise. Sometimes we don’t pause during tough times of the day and just relax, so having that website with waves crashing to relax, would definitely help in those moments when we feel stressed. Also, learning that we don’t have to fix every situation or fix ourselves is something to be reminded of. We can recognise what works and what doesn’t for ourselves and make changes if what we’re doing doesn’t resonate. I think it’s important to want to make changes in our life and not doing it for someone else. I think this week was a good time for reflection and being reminded to take a pause when our mind and body need it.

Day 286 - A Year of Spiritual Awakening - When Someone Dies...

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Lesson 286: When Someone Dies...

“When someone dies, we are reminded that this is also our journey. When someone is born, we are reminded of whence we came. Both passages are mysteries. The heart holds their only meaning.”

— Sara Wiseman

Today we are to think about the cycles of birth and death. We are to notice it in our life and all the different ways it shows up.

I spent my Saturday cleaning the house for like 6 hours. From mopping, vacuuming, the bathroom and some serious dusting, I felt good achieving so much. My house is tidy and I feel good in my home. At night I went out to a gig and even though I was unwell, still had a good time.

In terms of a cycle of birth and death, I guess with my cleaning I would clearing away the dirt which would be death to give life to a clean, fresh state. Even though it’s not a direct birth and life situation, it still shows a cycle. As for the live music gig, I see it as both birth and death – birth of a new experience as well as death of the person I used to be because I didn’t have this experience beforehand. Because I am a medium also, a man in spirit came and stood next to me. He had medium dark brown hair, black jeans and a white tee. I don’t know why he came, but I think he just wanted to see Kygo in concert. It was kind of a funny experience because I could feel someone standing next to me. His presence was strong but when I turned to see him in the physical sense, there was no one there. I think him being there also shows both death and birth. Death because he was a spirit on the other side, but birth of me having a shared experience with a spirit that I didn’t know, and also didn’t realise I could have that experience with a spirit. I honestly think I was a beacon in that moment and he wanted to come and enjoy the show.

At night, I was just chilling into the night with my bestie and I had her father in death come along to pass on messages. It was quite emotional and he had so much he wanted to say. Again death and life in this moment. Not only was her father passed on, he needed to kill some beliefs my friend had that impacted her relationship with her father, but brought birth into her life on how she could move forward. It was very personal so I won’t go into detail though I’m glad that it showed I can help people and give new life to those that believe in what I have to say.

So those were my cycles for the day, what was yours?

Day 286 - A Year to Clear - Do Nothing

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Lesson 286: Do Nothing

Today’s lesson is to go to this website: http://www.donothingfor2minutes.com/ and just breathe through it.

I decided to close my eyes as I listened. I was instantly taken to a beach with a sunset. I was in a cove with a rockface that had greenery on it. It was nice to listen to the waves because it was soothing. It’s amazing how good natural sounds are to the mind and body. You can just allow your worries to fade away.

I think what’s important is that sometimes we’re always on the go, that we forget to just take a moment out for ourselves. We need those moments to re-energise ourselves.

Day 285 - A Year to Clear - There is No There There

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Lesson 285: There is No There There

Today we are to think about this:

“The problems are not "out there." There is no there there. Whatever challenges you is not coming from some external source.”

How does it make you feel? Does it feel like something that is out of reach? Do you feel that it’s okay if it’s still farfetched?

I think this lesson can be confronting. It’s about facing to the fact that whatever problems, issues or challenges you have, isn’t about the world, the universe or even other people being against you. There isn’t some active force trying to go against you at all. It’s not about placing blame on what’s out there, and it most definitely not about placing the blame on self either. It simply is a message that sometimes shit happens. Mistakes happen. What we shouldn’t do is beat ourselves up over it or place blame on something or someone. It just is. The best thing you can do is work through and then move forward from what challenges you. There isn’t a problem that can’t be fixed. Sometimes it’s just about looking within to find some answers to handle your challenges. Blame shouldn’t be placed in any instance. It’s about learning and growing.