Day 38 - A Year to Clear - Passing Clouds

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Lesson 38: Passing Clouds

“If you consider that every thought pattern that doesn’t align with your highest purpose and deepest knowing is like a passing cloud or squall that blocks the sunlight of your being, it becomes easier to let it go.

What are you ready to let go of today?”

— Stephanie Bennett Vogt

Clouds that I would like to pass are the continuous self-doubt and questioning of my skills and ability. I tend to question my actions and I guess it’s that fear we tend to have. Fear of not doing it right and failing. I need to re-route my thinking into a more positive “yes I can do it” type of attitude. I know the only person limiting myself is me. It’s like a battle in my head. Sometimes it’s “I can’t do this” and then I counter it with a “yes Liana you can do this”. If those self-deprecating thoughts can go away and I can be forever pushed in a “you can do it” attitude, that’d be great.

I think because I am a bit of perfectionist when it comes to any skills, I can be a bit hard on myself also. It’s silly because I am learning, and I hold myself in high regard, so I don’t like to fail. As I type this, I’m thinking gosh I’m a wonder. One minute there is fear and disbelief mixed with a hint of not ever wanting to fail. It just seems so unrealistic in hindsight.

I want this all released – failure is good to grow from so I would like to release that idealistic pressure I place on myself. I also would like to release all the thoughts that put me down when I’m developing into my own person. My journey will have bumps but it’s just part of the ride. Replace everything with a slowly but surely progressive attitude for my path. I send this out to the universe!

Day 38 - A Year of Spiritual Awakening - Success is a Myth

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Lesson 38: Success is a myth...

“Lesson 38: Success is a myth. There are only experiences. There is no culmination of experiences into one peak experience. There is only one experience, and this is the one you are in now. Tomorrow, there will be another experience, different or the same as today. There is no scoreboard, no winning, no tally. When you reframe your concept of success as experiences you would like to create, everything changes.”

— Sara Wiseman

Success means and looks different to everyone.

I am to look at success and rethink my idea of success. What does it mean to me, what does it look like to me and what experiences would I like to have?

I personally feel success is based on what you make of your life. Whatever your dreams and goals are, as long as you achieve that in the best way you know how that’s success. I don’t necessarily look at achievements as a success. I look at experiences as a success. For example, if I should push my comfort zone doing some activity like hang gliding, that to me is a success. I’ve used to be accustomed to the dream of having a family, getting a husband, having a good career, being wealthy or owning a house as being successful when I was a child. that does not resonate with me anymore.

Based on Sara’s quote and the lesson, it seems like I’m already there- not really looking at success in a framework that I might have been conditioned with. I’ve said this many times but I live for experience now. It wasn’t a mindset I used to have, but I have adopted it since last year after my own traumatic experience. Every day I log an activity I’ve done for the day in a diary. I find this useful as it means I’m always experiencing something every day. That to me is much more valuable than measuring success that we’re prone to knowing.

What experiences do I desire? Well, I am currently going to more live music and enjoying the atmosphere. I like to read so I am trying to read even if just 50 pages, in a week. I draw when I feel the spark. I am doing this spiritual course and a clearing course – both of which are 365-day lessons. I have started writing the book series that I’ve wanted to since 2016. I’ve started belly dance back up again. And then I study witchcraft and lightwork when I can as well as exercise. I want to continue these activities throughout the year. Things I want to add to this list is researching my ancestry, learn a language, re-learn handwriting skills, resume my piano lessons, start volunteering, go to more art galleries, travel to a new country, learn a new form of dance and focus on my health.

These are actually all my goals for 2018 and I think I will achieve them. The only limiting factor in all of this is me. It’s why I keep a diary of the activities I do daily – to reinforce that I am experiencing every day. You should really try it for yourself – rethink how you view success and think about it as experiencing instead. I can guarantee it changes the way you live.